respected

Les gens qu'on honore ne sont que des fripons qui ont eu le bonheur de n'e"  tre pas pris en flagrant de¤  lit. Respected people are only rascals who have had the good fortune not to be caught in the act.

—Stendhal pseudonym of  Henri Beyle

La femme†sait que quand on la regarde on ne la distingue pas de son apparence: elle est juge¤  e, respecte¤  e, de¤  sire¤  e a'   travers sa toilette. Woman†knows that when she is looked at she is not considered apart from her appearance: she is judged, respected, desired, by and through her toilette.

—de Beauvoir, Simone