It's like getting caught, not by a person, but by the circumstances of your actions.
These consisted partly in the general respect and esteem paid to a proxenus, and partly in many more substantial honours conferred by special decree of the state whose representative he was, such as freedom from taxation and public burdens, the right of acquiring property in Attica, admission to the senate and popular assemblies, and perhaps even full citizenship. Public hospitium seems also to have existed among the Italian races; but the circumstances of their history prevented it from becoming so important as in Greece.
Given the circumstances, she could forgive him.
I wish the circumstances were different.
Under no circumstances should we ever personally get directly involved with a case.