This last question is beginning to overshadow all the rest.
Neutrals are easy to play with, and they won't overshadow the zebra prints.
While this white is less likely to shine on its own, it will not overshadow with your other holiday dishes.
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Pinot Noir - Although strong flavors can sometimes overshadow this lighter-bodied red wine, it is a great choice for its versatility.