The dark side of Capricorn is riddled with insecurities and worries over what he said or did.
Perhaps their negative attitude is simply a reflection of their own insecurities.
Betty's boyfriend can't handle her new position and she struggles with his insecurities.
Hayden Panettiere (of the hit TV show Heroes) is revealed as the star and the team captain, with all the insecurities that entails.
A good gift is always a gift that fits and does not exacerbate female insecurities.