The definition of incongruity is when things don’t match as they are expected to.
(noun)An example of an incongruity is a wealthy woman who drives an old beaten up car.
See incongruity in Webster's New World College Dictionary
noun
Origin: ML incongruitas < L incongruus
See incongruity in American Heritage Dictionary 4
noun pl. in·con·gru·i·ties
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