The family meal is sanctified by the offering of a portion of the food to the household numina (spirits).
For a family meal or a romantic dinner, you may want to just match the wine with the entrée.
If not all family members want to eat raw foods, each person may choose his or her own breakfast and lunch foods and simply join the family meal at dinner time.
Will she cook her own meals or will she be expected to help prepare the family meal?