They also have very narrow interests, sometimes obsessing over specific things.
It's interesting that my mother, who would spend days obsessing about finding just the right switch plate cover to match a room's decor, never took on doorknobs.
Lose the cabinet doors - Open shelving is all the rage, and it has some big advantages over those shuttered wooden built-ins you've been obsessing over all these years.
However, obsessing about it may only make the anger worse.
Go find some other activities that keep your mind off obsessing over the fool.