Tough love is defined as being strict discipline or imposing specific obligations or requirements on a person to mandate responsibility because you care for that individual.
(noun)An example of tough love is when a parent punishes a child for getting bad grades or for not keeping his promises.
See tough love in Webster's New World College Dictionary
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Origin: < TOUGHLOVE, a trademark for a program offering family counseling
See tough love in American Heritage Dictionary 4