The clincher was your not knowing about the Byrnes' dream of sipping manhattans in Frisco.
You're not drinking those awful manhattans are you?
When things were going badly, we'd say, 'Think of manhattans at the Mark.'
Did your husband drink manhattans?
I don't mind if you have more than one, but now that we're married, I don't intend to be as much a gentleman as the last time you drank manhattans.