Once you've located one you like, you'll have to decide how to word and present your online ad. The first dilemma is the most troublesome for many online daters; submit an ad with pictures or without?
Gays are no different from straight daters when it comes to highly individualized needs, wants, and personality characteristics.
Behaviors that would not be acceptable anywhere else in the public world - such as using explicitly sexual language without knowing whether it's welcome - are the norm for many online daters.
But grown-up, responsible, people approach adult dating online with respect for their fellow daters.