An example of cajole is when you try to coax your friend into making your favorite dinner by commenting several times what a great cook she is and how much you love her food.
verbca·joled, ca·jol·ing, ca·joles
- To persuade by flattery, gentle pleading, or insincere language: “He knew how she cajoled him into getting things for her and then would not even let him kiss her” (Theodore Dreiser).
- To elicit or obtain by flattery, gentle pleading, or insincere language: The athlete cajoled a signing bonus out of the team's owner.
Origin of cajoleFrench cajoler, possibly blend of Old French cageoler, to chatter like a jay (from geai, jai, jay; see jay2) and Old French gaioler, to lure into a cage (from gaiole, jaiole, cage; see jail).
(third-person singular simple present cajoles, present participle cajoling, simple past and past participle cajoled)